This is no fiction and one of those stories that would make one wonder the wickedness of the heart of human being….. However, the young lady needs your advice….
I am in a very sad mood, I feel used, and rejected ,I feel soo terrible, I am married with 4 kids, and I always felt I am married to the best man In The world, I am a Registered Nurse in a Government hospital here in Lagos, while he is a Dentist, our plan as always been that when our first child finishes primary school we will relocate to the US, about a year ago my hubby started dating one lady in a late 30s, I saw her messages and challenged him and he apologized , and I forgave him, but to my surprise, he came home late on Friday night, and slept, very early on Saturday I drove his car out to refill gas, and saw an envelope, inside was his passport with US visa on it, and the Ladies own too with US visa, I saw the form he used to fill His visa application , In the form he said his wife was late, and my death certificate was attached , and his wedding certificate with the said lady was attached to it, in the form he wrote out all our children’s names but he claimed their mum was late, I made a photocopy of all the documents and returned the envelope back, but I nearly ran mad, he observed that I have been so cold since, and as been asking what’s the matter, please what can I do ,what should I do, how do I accept this type of wickedness, and traitor attitude, please mummies advice me before I do something drastic.
Pls hide my ID
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Na real wa. I’m stuck for words. I really don’t know what to say to her.
Let her keep her silence towards the man. Proceed to the embassy with her marriage certificate and the photocopies she made with all her means of identifications. The visa will surely be revoked. Then she can sue him for whatever she feels. Making sure the visa is cancelled is the first step. The man will surely continue with his plans, only to be shocked on getting to the airport probably, to realise that he has been double crossed. She must not let the man know else he will come up with a plan B. Take him unaware. Let the game begin. You can file for a divorce later and custody for your kids.
Let her keep her silence towards the man. Proceed to the embassy with her marriage certificate and the photocopies she made with all her means of identifications. The visa will surely be revoked. Then she can sue him for whatever she feels. Making sure the visa is cancelled is the first step. The man will surely continue with his plans, only to be shocked on getting to the airport probably, to realise that he has been double crossed. She must not let the man know else he will come up with a plan B. Take him unaware. Let the game begin. You can file for a divorce later and custody for your kids. I’d go to the extent of printing the man obituary and paste everywhere…shebi he wan kill me,he will see his obituary all over Lagos. Some men are really scum
I would have advised that she should just pick up the original documents and get them burnt because the crime he committed by saying she is dead and even providing the death certificate is worse. But, I think she should Asher to Chdimma Ezekwe’s advise and act fast. She should also report to the police with evidence for her life’s sake in case of when the issue escalates. That man can go to any length to terminate your life, so play safe by involving the police or Army